说到批评这个词,人们很容易想到损人、让人丢面子、颐指气使等等。有人以为,批评他人往往是得罪人的事。但是,之所以如此,恐怕主要还是我们批评他人时缺乏技巧的原因。那么,在平时生活中,该怎么批评才会让对方心悦诚服呢?对事不对人日本著名管理学家大前研一曾说:“能做到对事不对人,就不会在乎自己的立场。因为事实出现之后,你就会忠于事实,坦然接受这个事实。不能忠于事实,不但无法洞悉问题的本质,也不可能走完找到正确解决方案的过程。”所以,批评人应尽量准确、具体,对方哪件事做错 When it comes to criticizing the word, people easily think of harm to people, loss of face, and so on. Some people think that criticizing others is often an offense. However, the reason for this is probably mainly the reason why we lack the skills to criticize others. So, in everyday life, how to criticize each other will be convinced? Matter is not right Japan’s famous management scientist Kenichi Ichiyama once said: “can do things right, will not care about their position. Because after the facts have come you will be true to the facts and accept the fact openly. You can not be true to the facts, not only failing to understand the essence of the problem, nor can you finish the process of finding the right solution. ”" Critics should therefore be as accurate and concrete as possible What is wrong with each other?