自然界中的动物,通过争抢、打闹来学习成年的一些规则,我们的孩子也是如此。孩子们一起玩耍发生争执时,常常令大人们困扰,指责自己的孩子会心疼,而别人家的孩子又说不得。有些家长可能很粗暴,从自己孩子手中夺过玩具递给小朋友,嘴里还批评孩子:“怎么这么小气!”此刻孩子不是压抑委屈,就是愤怒大哭,绝对是对孩子的心理健康不利的。另外,一些家长可能任由自己的孩子拿着玩具一个劲儿玩,心想:这 Animals in nature learn some of the rules of adultery through fighting and slamming, as do our children. When children play together, they often bother adults, accuse their children of distress, and children of other families say nothing. Some parents may be rude, take a toy from their own children handed over to children, his mouth also criticized the child: “How so stingy!” At this moment the child is not suppressed grievances, that is, anger and cry, is definitely detrimental to children’s mental health of. In addition, some parents may allow their children to keep playing with toys, thinking: this