在我的农村老家,一般而言,每逢春节外甥到姥娘门里拜年是必走的亲戚,因为在人际关系中亲情或是血缘关系可能是最重要,也是最久远的。娘奶等那边(统称为姥娘门)亲戚关系的维继一般是基于这样一个传统:娘或奶等(及以后)三代不应忘记姥娘家的门,或是姥娘门的也在这几代不忘记已嫁出去的姑及姑奶家的三辈后人。但随着长辈们渐渐故去,三代以后大都与姥娘门的断了亲,若是此类亲戚一直延续下去的话,每家还不是都要有成百上千家的亲戚吗?别 In my rural hometown, in general, it is a must-visit relative to each other during the Spring Festival, because the affection or kinship may be the most important and the most distant in the interpersonal relationship. Niangniu other side (collectively referred to as the Grandma door) relatives of the dimension following the general is based on such a tradition: the mother or the milk (and later) should not forget the three generations of Grandma’s door, or grandmother door is here Several generations have not forgotten the grandchildren who have been married out of grandmother’s descendants. However, as the elders gradually passed away, most of them were disconnected from their grandchildren after three generations. If such relatives had continued, would not each have hundreds or thousands of relatives?