谢老师:我鼓起很大的勇气才向您求助,因为我知道几乎没有人能理解和接受我的情感经历。我和妻子是经别人介绍认识的,除了妻子的年龄比我小十多岁之外,我们各方面都很般配。她性格开朗、活泼可爱,像一只快乐的小鸟。我的朋友和家人都很喜欢她,在他们的催促和鼓励下,一年前,我们结婚了。婚后,我们才发现两个人谁都不会做家务,因为我们都是在各自母亲的精心照料下长大的。刚开始,我们还能凑合,可日子久了,生活就开始变得一团糟,每顿饭我们不 Teacher Xie: I have great courage to ask for help because I know that few people can understand and accept my emotional experience. My wife and I were introduced by others, and we are well-equipped in all aspects except the wife’s age is younger than me. She is cheerful, lively and lovely, like a happy bird. My friends and family liked her very much. With their urging and encouragement, we were married a year ago. After marriage, we found out that neither of us would do housework because we all grew up under the care of our own mothers. At the beginning, we can make do, but with the passage of time, life will start to get messy. We do not have each meal.