1976年4月7日出生的我,到今天已经28岁了。作为三代单传的男孩,父母每过三两星期都会在电话里询问我的婚姻状况。三年前我的回答总是:快了快了,正在找着呢。两年前,我的回答是:慢慢来,正处着呢。但是这一年多我的回答已经变了,我总是告诉他们:急什么啊,等缘分吧。现在我单身一人住在城市北面一幢15层的小高层里,两居室的房子月租要1800,就像父母不能理解我为什么要花这么多钱租房而不干脆按揭贷款买房付月供一样,他们也不能理解我现在的心态,年龄越来越大,怎么对婚姻大事反而越 I was born on April 7, 1976 and is 28 years old today. As a three-generation boy, parents ask me about my marital status on the phone every three or two weeks. My answer was always three years ago: almost fast, I was looking for it. Two years ago, my answer was: Take it slow, I am at it. But more than a year my answer has changed, I always tell them: what are you anxious, so fate. Now I am a single person living in the north of the city on the 15th floor of a small high-rise, two-bedroom house monthly rent of 1800, just as parents can not understand why I need to spend so much money to rent a house instead of mortgage loans to buy a house for the same month, They also can not understand my current state of mind, growing older, but how to marry the event instead