荷兰最新研究发现,良好而流畅的对话能够给人以很强的自尊感和归属感。相反,如果正在进行的对话中,即使是非常短——大约4秒钟——的停顿,已经足以激发出人类最原始的恐惧、焦虑,并让人感知到:我和他谈不来或者我们彼此排斥。研究人员对此作出解释:对话的流畅性是与积极的情绪、强烈的归属感、被尊重的 The latest study in the Netherlands found that a good and smooth dialogue can give a strong sense of self-esteem and sense of belonging. On the contrary, if an ongoing conversation, even a very short - about 4 seconds, pause is enough to evoke the most primitive fears and anxieties of mankind and make us feel: I can not talk to him or we Exclusion from each other. Researchers explain this: the fluency of conversation is associated with positive emotions, a strong sense of belonging, and respect