现在,不少家长都在暑假里安排孩子参加各种军训、训练营等,以磨炼孩子的意志,培养他们面对困难坚持不懈的精神。诚然,让孩子在外面接受各种磨练,对于培养孩子的独立生活能力、吃苦耐劳精神是很有好处的,但笔者以为,很多“吃苦教育”其实完全可以在家中培养的。在多数家庭,孩子基本都是衣来伸手、饭来张口,到哪里都要人陪,依赖性很强。有的小孩都十多岁了,还不会自己洗澡、单独睡觉,至于洗衣服、煮饭、炒菜很多人连边都没挨过。这其中,可能有孩子怕吃苦的原因,但是,家长的错误观念也不无责任。有的家 Nowadays, many parents plan their children’s military training camps and training camps during the summer holidays so as to hone their children’s will and cultivate their perseverance in the face of difficulties. It is true that letting children receive various kinds of training on the outside is very good for cultivating children’s independent living ability and hard-working spirit, but I think many “education of hardship” can be cultivated at home. In most families, children basically have their own hands in their clothes and their meals come to their mouths. Wherever they go, they must be accompanied by others and strongly dependent on them. Some children are more than 10 years old, and will not take a bath, sleep alone, as for washing clothes, cooking, cooking a lot of people have not even endured. Among these, there may be reasons why children are afraid to endure hardship, but parents’ misconceptions are not without their responsibility. Some home