自我国1979年初提出“计划生育”政策至今,已将近40年。当年第一批的独生子女现在也为人父母,他们的孩子也就成了“独二代”。虽然国家放开了二胎政策,但“四位老人、两位父母和一个孩子”还是大多数家庭的人员构成。这种“421”家庭模式决定了孩子的健康成长成为父母双方两大家族的共同关注点。年轻父母工作压力大,工作繁忙,照顾子女、教育子女的任务很多都落在祖辈身上。祖辈又有着丰富的工作经历和极高 Since our country proposed the policy of “family planning ” in early 1979, it has been nearly 40 years. The first batch of only-child children were now also parents, and their children became the “second generation.” Although the state has liberalized its second child policy, “four elderly people, two parents and one child” are still members of most families. This “421 ” family model determines the child’s healthy growth has become the common concern of the two families of both parents. Young parents work under pressure, work hard, take care of children, many of the tasks of educating their children fall on their ancestors. Grandparents have a wealth of work experience and high