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在我们中国,几乎所有家长的心中都有一个共同的对手,这个对手的名字叫做“别人家的孩子”。孩子学习成绩不尽如人意,家长会拿别人家的孩子说事:“你看看对门人家那孩子,家庭条件那么差,但人家学习成绩那么好,你怎么就不向人家学学呢?”孩子贪玩不好好学习,家长就会训孩子:“就知道贪玩,一点儿也不长进。你看看你们班那个跟你坐同桌的女孩儿,人家学习多自觉!你看看你,我紧盯着你还不专心写作业,这样下去如何得了?”如果说孩子正因为学习成绩不好备受失败的打击,那么,家长的这些话,只能增
In China, almost all parents have a common opponent in the heart of the opponent’s name is “children of other people ”. Children’s academic performance is not satisfactory, parents will get other children’s things to say: “You look at the door to that child, family conditions so poor, but others so good academic performance, how do you not learn from others? ”Children do not learn to play well, parents will teach children: “ You know that fun, a little does not grow.You look at your class that sitting at the same table with your girl, people learn more conscious! Look at you, I stare at you not concentrate on writing homework, how to get on this way? ”If the child is because of poor academic performance and beaten by failure, then the parents of these words can only be increased