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提起孩子依赖大人的话题,许多的家长焦急万分:孩子的学习用具需大人帮助整理,与同学发生了矛盾需大人出面调解,作业遇到难题也由大人代劳……家长们感觉孩子站在自己面前,个头甚至比自己还高大,可依然像个刚出生的小鸟离不开父母,更谈不上自由地在天空翱翔了。孩子的依赖性是从哪里来的呢?一般来说与家长有着密切的关系。家庭教育对孩子独立性的形成起着决定性的作用。从以下列举的三个现代家庭日常生活的对话中来分析讨论孩子依赖性形成的原因。
Children raised the subject of reliance on adults, many parents anxious: children’s learning tools need adult help to organize, and students have a conflict to be adults come forward to mediate, homework problems encountered by adults ... ... parents feel that children stand in front of themselves , Tall even taller than himself, but still like a newborn bird inseparable from parents, let alone fly freely in the sky. Where does the child’s dependence come from? Generally speaking, there is a close relationship with parents. Family education plays a decisive role in the formation of children’s independence. The reasons for the formation of child dependence are analyzed and discussed from the following dialogues on the daily life of three modern families.