一般情况下,在谈心的活动中,作为主动的一方往往比较重视对方的“谈”,即语言表达,而自觉不自觉地忽视对方的“谈外之音”——“非言语表达”。实际上,“非言语表达”在谈心活动中扮演着重要的“角色”,许多心理活动,言语并未表达,却通过各种姿态流露出来。换言之,一个人的思想活动除了用言语表达之外,还必然会通过各种姿态反映出来,只不过是间接或比较隐蔽的反映。对于一般职工来说,他在谈心过程中的言语和身体的姿态是一种复合过程。一个好的领导和政工干部,在 Under normal circumstances, in the talkative activities, the active party tends to pay more attention to each other’s “talk”, that is, the language expression, and consciously or unconsciously neglects each other’s “non-verbal” - “nonverbal expression.” In fact, “non-verbal expression” plays an important “role” in talking activities. Many mental activities and words are not expressed, but are revealed through various gestures. In other words, apart from using words to express one’s thoughts and actions, one’s thoughts and actions must be reflected through various gestures, which are merely indirect or relatively subtle reflections. For the average employee, he is talking about the process of speech and body posture is a complex process. A good leader and political cadre, in