孔子说：“己所不欲，勿施于人”。这是说，不要把自己不喜欢的事情强加于别人。孔子此语无疑是至理名言，无可非议。但如反问一句：“以己所欲，必施于人”，就应当提倡吗？答案恐怕也未必肯定。明朝时候，上层官员们有以自己名义刻书馈赠同僚的风气，因为赠书时要用手帕... Confucius said: “Do not do to others, do not impose on others.” This means that you should not impose what you do not like on others. This term is undoubtedly the most famous saying in Confucius. It is beyond reproach. However, if you ask the question: “Do what you want and do what you want”, should we promote it? I am afraid that the answer may not be sure. When the Ming dynasty, the top officials have engraved their own books on behalf of fellow colleagues of the atmosphere, because when you use books to handkerchiefs ...