多年的心理咨询工作已让我习惯安静地等候,而且常常是邀约来访者和我一起练习这个功课。有个来访者,生长在北方,从西安某大学毕业后签约分到了广东一个偏远的小县城某机构做公务员。南北生活的差异,加上语言完全不通,无论是地理环境还是人际环境, Years of psychological counseling have given me a habit to wait quietly, and often invite visitors to practice the homework with me. A visitor, who grew up in the north, signed a contract after graduating from a university in Xi’an to a civil servant in a small, remote county town in Guangdong. Differences in life between North and South, coupled with the language barrier, whether it is geographical or interpersonal environment,