我们惊呼婚姻出了问题,其实是说男人和女人出了问题,因为婚姻是男人和女人的游戏。是游戏,就得有规则。那么婚姻的规则是什么?忠诚。男人对女人的忠诚和女人对男人的忠诚,如此,婚姻才有秩序,婚姻才有稳定。可问题在于,这一规则说起来简单做起来难。原因是什么?诱惑太多。金钱是一种诱惑,地位是一种诱惑,权力是一种诱惑,相貌是一种诱惑,婚姻本身也是一种诱惑……诸如此类的诱惑之一,就足可以促 We exclaimed the problem of marriage, in fact, that men and women have a problem, because marriage is a game of men and women. Is the game, you have to have rules. So what is the rule of marriage? Loyalty. Men’s loyalty to women and women’s loyalty to men, so marriage is orderly, marriage is stable. The problem is that this rule is not easy to say. What is the reason? Too much temptation. Money is a temptation, status is a temptation, power is a temptation, the appearance is a temptation, marriage itself is a temptation ...... Such temptation is enough to promote