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近日去友人那里,他们正在读研。闲聊中,得知现在学习很忙。据说在他们学校普遍反映研究生质量有下滑趋势,从这一届起,学校在毕业答辩时将请别的导师来。友人们直呼不走运,压力极大。而上届师兄师姐们则幸灾乐祸。在他们诉完苦后,我反而替他们高兴:“应该说你们这届是幸运的,因为从你们开始,研究生质量将开始提高,你们的身价不就相应提高了吗?”于是,大家不禁抚掌大笑。这样一分析,“弊”便转化为“利”,心理压力便消除了,快乐便浮出水面。 看,仅仅换了一个角度看问题,便让友人从“地狱”走向“天堂”。人生就是这样,有许多事,仅仅换了一
Recently to friends, where they are studying. Gossip, that now learning is very busy. It is said that there is a general downward trend in the quality of postgraduates reflected in their schools. From this session onward, schools will invite other mentors when they graduate. Friends call him unlucky, great pressure. The last brothers and sisters are gloating. After they complained, I was happy for them: “It should be said that you are lucky this session, because from you, the quality of graduate students will start to increase, and your social status will not be raised accordingly?” laughing out loud. In such an analysis, “disadvantages” translate into “benefits,” psychological pressure is eliminated, and happiness emerges. Look, just changed the perspective of a problem, will allow friends from “hell” to “paradise.” Life is like this, there are many things, just changed one