时间跟我开了个玩笑,一眨眼,我已变成了一个60多岁的老太太,同学、朋友也相继退休,甚至连左邻右舍也开始老了。退休后,我们不用早起边啃馒头边赶路,也不用为升级、职称、上下左右的关系而犯愁,满可以自由自在地干点儿什么,可有些人呀,不好好过,老夫妻闹开了矛盾。 我有一个朋友,年轻时丈夫行为不检,她又气又恨,但为了子女的哺育为了家庭的完整而忍受着,现在儿女已成家另过,我那位朋友就天天找丈夫的岔,时不时还算老账,弄得两人痛苦,儿女不安。 两口子有矛盾实属正常,年轻时因顾及名利克制 Time joke with me, blink of an eye, I have become a 60-year-old woman, classmates, friends have also retired, and even neighbors are beginning to age. After retirement, we do not have to get up early to eat bread while hurrying, nor to upgrade, job title, up and down about the relationship between the worry, full can freely dry something, but some people, not good, the old couple downtown contradiction. I have a friend. When I was a young man, she was angry and hated. However, in order to bear her children’s nurturing for the integrity of her family, her children have become married and my friend has to look for her husband from time to time. Even old account, confused two people, children uneasy. Conflict between the couple is normal, when young, due to take into account the restraint