1915年,一个叫查宾的人做过一项调查,他统计了10所美国医学院中弃婴的死亡率,结果是90%。他奇怪:为什么弃婴与在家庭中生活的孩子死亡率之差竟如此之大。后来经过研究发现:问题的根源在于弃婴不能像普通孩子那样与父母沟通——与父母进行目光和情感的交流,在父母的拥抱中体会人体的温暖,听到父母心脏的跳动,肌肤得到来自父母或其他亲人的爱抚。他们是被心理上、情绪上,最后是身体上的“孤独”夺走了生命。由此可见,人与人之间的沟通,尤其是父母与孩子之间的沟通,对孩子各个方面的正常发展是多么的重要! In 1915, a man named Zabin conducted a survey. He calculated the death rate of abandoned babies in 10 U.S. medical schools and the result was 90%. He wondered why the death rate of abandoned babies and children living in families was so great. Later, the study found that the root cause of the problem is that abandoned babies can not communicate with their parents as ordinary children do - communicate with their parents eyes and emotions, feel the warmth of the human body in the hugs of their parents, hear the heartbeat of their parents and their skin come from Caresses of parents or other loved ones. They are psychologically, emotionally, and finally, physically “lonely,” taking their lives. Thus it can be seen that the communication among people, especially between parents and children, is so important to the normal development of all aspects of the child!