关于女人,我在电话中回答过一位来电者提出的问题。 问:你怎么看男人和女人? 徐国静:如果我把男人和女人放在不同的领域中去观察和凝视时,我的眼光、胸怀、心情和思想都发生了一个巨大的变化。当我把男人和女人放在一起观察时,我发现男人和女人的思维方式,情感趋向和审美感觉的差异,这些差异给男人和女人带来了很多困惑和冲撞,甚至还有不满和怨恨。正像我在《男人和女人》一书里写的 Regarding the woman, I answered a caller’s question on the phone. Q: How do you see men and women? Xu Guojing: If I place men and women in different fields to observe and gaze, my vision, mind, mind and thoughts have undergone a tremendous change. When I looked at men and women and looked at them, I found the differences in the way of thinking, the tendency of feeling and the sense of beauty of men and women. These differences brought many confusion and clashes to men and women, and even dissatisfaction and resentment. Just as I wrote in “Men and Women”