遇到不快的事情,身处于逆境,我们不要在不幸事件上再加入自怜、懊恼等悲观的情绪,即不要在事实上加上自己的不快观念,这样你就可以快乐些。美国一位著名医学家的成功之路很好地揭示了观念与事实之间的逻辑关系。 这位医学家早年决心要当医生时,有人预言他永远办不到,因为他家里没有钱。没有钱是事实,当不了医生则仅仅是个观念。人家说他永远无法到国外进修深造,而且一个年轻的医生不可能在纽约挂起牌开业。然而这些他全都做到了。因为他一直相信 Encounter unpleasant things, are in adversity, we do not add unhappy events such as pity, annoyance and other pessimistic emotions, that is, in fact, add their own unpleasant ideas, so that you can be happy. The success of a famous American medical scientist well reveals the logical relationship between ideas and facts. When the medical doctor was determined to be a doctor in his early years, some predicted that he could never do so because he had no money at home. No money is a fact, not a doctor is just a concept. Others say he will never be able to pursue advanced studies abroad, and a young doctor can not suspend business in New York. But all of them he did it. Because he always believed