有效的家庭教育对于青少年们健康成长有着重要意义。一、现实上的困惑 1、社会规范的某些不定性与家长理解上的多层次性。社会规范是维持社会秩序的工具。如道德规范、法律规范和多种多样的生活规则。这里指的社会规范的某些不定性,含义有二:一是社会规范本身在发生变化。我国不仅是一个多民族的文明古国,又是一个已消灭剥削制度的社会主义国家,目前尚处于社会主 Effective family education is of great importance to the healthy growth of young people. First, the real confusion 1, some of the social norms and parents understand the multi-level nature. Social norms are tools to maintain social order. Such as ethics, legal norms and a variety of rules of life. Some of the uncertainties in the social norms here refer to two meanings: First, the social norms themselves are changing. Our country is not only a multi-ethnic and civilized country, but also a socialist country that has eliminated its system of exploitation. It is still under the social responsibility of the socialists