学生“怕”老师不如学生“服”老师。如何增强教师对学生的影响力,提高自己的威信?如何增强学生的信任,使其佩服教师的人品、学识和教艺?如何更好地处理好教师与学生这对“朋友”关系?……这是每个教师应该而且必须思考和处理好的问题。对此,笔者从教学实践中认为应从以下几个方面做出努力。 Students “fear” teachers are not as good as students “service” teachers. How to enhance teachers’ influence on students and improve their prestige? How to enhance students’ trust and make them admire teachers’ moral character, knowledge and teaching skills? How to better handle the relationship between teachers and students? This is a question that every teacher should and must think about and deal with. In this regard, the author believes that from the teaching practice, efforts should be made from the following aspects.