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近期微信朋友圈中频繁看到孩子离家出走、家人寻找的消息。而细心观察会发现这些孩子的年龄集中在12—15岁,该年龄段处于心理学中的第二次反抗期,这时的孩子在生理上和心理上有明显的变化、情绪变得不稳定、渴望自主独立的做决定,开始对父母的管教进行反抗,父母与孩子不能进行有效的沟通,致使问题严重化,为孩子成长带来隐患。本文针对帮助孩子度过第二反抗期,从父母和学校两方面入手,给出如下建议:第一、建立良好的亲子关系;第二、初中校园应当加强心理建设。
Recent WeChat circle of friends frequently see children run away from home, family members looking for the news. And careful observation will find that these children are concentrated in the age of 12-15 years old, this age in psychology in the second resistance period, when the child has significant physiological and psychological changes, the mood becomes unstable , Eager to make their own decisions, began to protest their parents, parents and children can not communicate effectively, resulting in serious problems, for the growth of children with hidden dangers. This article aims to help children through the second period of resistance, starting from both parents and schools, the following recommendations: First, to establish a good parent-child relationship; second, junior high school campus should strengthen psychological construction.