檀老师:我结婚时间不长,有属于我俩自己的房子,公婆也有自己的家。但是,我只要不在家,婆婆就跑到我的家里,把我原先摆放好的东西按照她的习惯或者想法重新摆放一边,让我经常找不到要用的东西;有时候还翻看我的衣柜。我旁敲侧击地、非常客气地提醒过婆婆,这样做让我很不舒服。但婆婆照样我行我素:只要我出门不在家,她就来家里折腾一番。请问:我应该怎么办呢? Teacher Tan: I do not get married for a long time and belong to both my own house and her in-laws have their own home. However, as long as I was not at home, my mother-in-law ran to my home and relocated what I had put before her according to her habits or ideas so that I could not find what I needed to use frequently; My wardrobe I was knocked on the sidelines, very politely reminded her mother, doing so I am very uncomfortable. But her mother still go its own way: as long as I go out not home, she came home toss about it. Excuse me: What should I do?