每一位父母都爱自己的孩子,愿意为孩子付出一切、包揽一切。可孩子是一个具有独立人格的人,他用自己的童心去观察、理解和探索世界,他从小就有摆脱对父母的依赖、按照自己的意愿去做事的冲动。初生儿要挣脱父母对其手脚的束缚,为的是自由伸展;婴儿要挣脱父母的搀扶,为的是想自己学会走路;幼儿要挣脱父母的管教,希望的是能够做自己想做的事。可以说,孩子从一出世起,就在 Every parent loves his own children and is willing to give everything for his children. Children can be an independent personality who uses his own innocence to observe, understand and explore the world. From an early age, he had the impulse to get out of his dependence on his parents and do his work according to his own wishes. Newborn children need to get rid of the shackles of their parents and their hands and feet in order to extend their freedom. The infant needs to get rid of his parents’ support in order to learn to walk. Young children want to be free from the discipline of their parents and hope that they can do what they want. It can be said that children have been born since