国学大师张中行在《婚姻》一文中说:“世间的一切事物都可以分等级,婚姻也是这样。以当事者满意的程度为标准,我多年阅世加内省,认为可以分为四个等级:可意,可过,可忍,不可忍。”可谓洞悉婚姻真谛。婚姻,谁不希望恩爱?谁不盼着幸福?但婚姻就像耕种土地,并不是每个 Master Zhang Guoxiong said in his article “Marriage,” “Everything in the world can be graded, and so is marriage.” Based on the degree of satisfaction of the parties, I spent many years reading Canada and the Inner Province and I think it can be divided into four levels: Meaning, can be, can be tolerated, intolerable. "Can be described as the true meaning of marriage. Marriage, who do not want to love? Who do not want happiness? However, marriage is like farming land, not every