迄今为止,无论是国内外对独生子女的研究还是千百万独生子女的现实都表明,独生子女较之非独生子女有着显著的优点,突出表现在智力高。但同时也表现出明显的弱点,那就是他们中出现了一些“特异”的现象,即特殊的、异常的病态心理和性格,如任性、骄横、自私、自理能力差等。这种‘特异性”,使得有些被家长奉为“天使”的孩子,简直成了家里的“暴君”。这些特异性是怎样产生的呢?依据儿童心理过程和现今独生子女生活的典型环境,我以为根源主要有 So far, the study of the only child at home and abroad or the reality of the one and only child have shown that the only child has significant advantages over the non-only child, highlighting the high intelligence. But at the same time, they also showed obvious weaknesses. That is, some “special” phenomenon appeared in them, that is, special and abnormal morbid psychology and personality such as self-willed, arrogant, selfish and poor self-care ability. This kind of ’specificity’ made some children who were regarded as “angels” by their parents became the “tyrants” in the family.How did these specificities originate? According to the typical psychological process of children and the current one-child life, I think the root causes are