《杜十娘怒沉百宝箱》与《第一次亲密接触》堪称两部爱情经典文本。本文通过对这两部小说的对读,分析了男女主人公滋生爱情环境的非现实性与女主人公命运的不可自主性,进而探讨人们的情感归依问题。 “Du Shiniang ghost treasure chest” and “the first intimate contact” called the two classic love texts. Through the reading of these two novels, this article analyzes the unrealistic sexual relationship of the hero and heroine and the immorality of the heroine ’s fate, and then explores people’ s emotional dependence.