我越来越觉得,如今的孩子,尤其大城市里的孩子,正面临一个危险:失去“家”、“故乡”这个精神支点。有位朋友,儿子6岁时搬了次家,10岁时又搬了次家,原因很简单,又购置了更大的房子。我问,你儿子还记不记得从前的家?带他回去过吗?他主动要求过吗?没有,朋友摇头,他就像住宾馆一样,哪儿都行,既不恋旧,也不喜新。我明白了,在“家”的转移上,孩子无动于衷,感情上没有缠绵,无需仪式和交接。 I feel more and more that nowadays children, especially children in big cities, are facing a danger of losing the spiritual fulcrum of “home ” and “hometown ”. One friend, son, moved home when he was six years old and moved to his second house when he was ten, for the simple reason that he purchased a larger house. I asked, did your son still remember his former home? Did he take him back? Did he ask for it? No, my friend shook his head. He was like a hotel, wherever he went, neither old nor old. . I understand that in the “home ” transfer, the children indifferent, emotionally without touching, without ceremony and handover.