人成长的道路不是一帆风顺的,有阳光,也常伴风雨。幼年时期,一些父母不忍心孩子受苦,帮孩子回避困难,造成了孩子耐挫力差,意志品质下降。只有教孩子不怕磨难、坚强面对,以积极的心态接纳、应对困难,培养他们顽强的毅力和坚韧不拔的自信心,及解决实际问题的能力,那么,困难就会转化为前进动力和获取成功体验的过程。 The path of human growth is not easy, sunny, often with the storm. At an early age, some parents do not have the heart to suffer the child, help the child to avoid difficulties, resulting in children with poor resistance, the will to decline in quality. Only by teaching their children not to be troubled and hard to face, to accept with a positive attitude, to deal with difficulties, to cultivate their tenacious perseverance and indomitable self-confidence and their ability to solve practical problems can difficulties be transformed into motivation and access The process of successful experience.