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有些家长平时喜欢数落孩子,而且还随便给孩子下结论。比如,孩子考试得了个不理想的分数,家长一急就信口开河:“你就是笨,连这样的题目都做错。”又比如,孩子做家务,不小心把碗打破了,家长心疼碗就开始喋喋不休:“连点小事都做不好,你说将来还能做什么大事,我看是没希望了。”其实,考不好与头脑笨不见得有必然联系,因摔破碗而被认定将来成不了大事压根儿就是小题大做。家长这样做,嘴上是痛快了,但可能给孩子带来十分消极的后果。
Some parents usually like to count the number of children, but also casual conclusion to the children. For example, the child’s exam has been an unsatisfactory score, parents anxious to believe: “You are stupid, even such a subject is wrong.” Another example, children do housework, accidentally broke the bowl, the parents feel bad bowl Began to chatter: “Even the little things are not doing well, you say what can be done in the future, I think there is no hope. ” In fact, the test is not necessarily stupid with the brain is inevitable, because of broken bowl And was found to be a major event in the future is simply a fuss. Parents do this, the mouth is happy, but it may have very negative consequences for children.