在美国的在押犯中,有28%是不满18岁的青少年。我与几百位小犯人的家长进行过交谈。家长们以询问的口气问我:“我们错在哪儿?”有许多次孩子们自己回答了他们父母的提问。孩子们说:“我们的爸爸妈妈不民主,从来听不进我们所说的话。”我问那些孩子:“如果你们的父母这时和你们坐在一起,你们想对他们说些什么?”他们的回答竟惊人地一致:“对我们的父母应该绳之以法。”这话道出了问题的实质。 Among the U.S. prisoners, 28% are adolescents under the age of 18. I talked to parents of hundreds of small prisoners. Parents asked me questions: “Where are we wrong?” There are many times the children answered their parents’ questions themselves. The children said: “Our dad and mom are not democratically and never listen to what we say.” I asked the children: “If your parents are sitting with you then, what would you like to say to them? ? ”Their reply surprisingly coincides:“ The substance of the question should be brought to justice to our parents. ”