古今中外,恐怕任何社会都希望它的成员按其性别行事,即在言行举止、待人接物、生活习惯和工作作风等等方面符合自己的性别——男的像男的,女的像女的。如果违反这个规律,就不容易为社会所接受。举个小的例子来说,女孩子突然接触到一个毛毛虫,会吓得尖声喊叫,人们对她的表现并不见怪;假若男孩子有此表现,大家就会骂他胆小鬼,没出息。因为社会上一般已认定男性应具有阳刚之气;女性则以文静、温和为美德。让孩子的心理发展和行为表现符合其性别,这一点具有重大的意义。因为这是以后适应社会、特别是适应将来从事的职业活动,以及恋爱、婚姻和家庭生活的重要条件之一。但在目前,我们一般的家庭还不大重视教育中的性别因素。有些父母出于“好玩”或其他原因,把自己的男孩子当女孩子对待;或者把女孩当男孩子对待,以致形成教育中的性别“错位”,从而影响孩子的健康成长,并给其生活带 At all times and in all countries, I am afraid that any society would like its members to act according to their gender, that is, men and women like women in terms of demeanor, interpersonal relationships, living habits and work style. If you violate this law, it is not easy for the community to accept. For a small example, a girl suddenly comes into contact with a caterpillar, screaming and screaming. People are not surprised at her performance. If a boy shows this, everyone scolls him for being coward. Because the community has generally been identified as male masculinity; women are quiet, gentle as a virtue. It is of great significance to have children’s psychological development and behavior consistent with their gender. Because it is one of the important conditions for future adaptation to society, especially for future career activities and for love, marriage and family life. However, at present, the average family in our country still lacks great attention to the gender aspect of education. Some parents treat their boys as girls for “fun” or other reasons; or treat girls as boys, resulting in the formation of gender “misplaced” sex in education, thus affecting the healthy growth of children and giving them life band