【咨询案例】我和老伴儿就一个女儿,非常疼爱。她上大学的时候不顾我们的阻拦谈了一个远方的男朋友,并且和男孩去了他的家乡结婚定居。气得我们没去参加女儿的婚礼。转眼过去几年了,女儿已经是一个孩子的妈妈了。可是,至今我们的关系也没缓解。最让我伤心的是,三年前我闹病住院,她说正忙,就没过来,说如果需要可以给我汇钱。有时候平静下来想想,好像现在孩子知道想家,也知道关心我们了,电话里告诉我 [Consultation case] I and my wife and children on a daughter, very love. When she was in college, she talked about a boyfriend away from us in the distance and went to his hometown to get married with the boy. Angrily, we did not attend the daughter’s wedding. A few years later, daughter is already a child’s mother. However, so far our relationship has not eased. What made me sad most was that I was hospitalized for sickness three years ago. She said she was busy and did not come over. She said that if I needed, I could send money. Sometimes calm down and think about it, as if now the children know homesick, but also know that care about us, tell me on the phone