编辑同志:最近,有一个既感到羞于启齿,但又无法摆脱的问题缠绕、困惑着我,作为贵刊的忠实读者,恳请指点迷津。我今年58岁,原是教师,老伴前年因病而故。难得儿女们的理解和开放,亲朋好友热心的搭桥牵线,我与老程登记结婚。老程今年62岁,身体很硬朗,不吸烟,只是中午和晚上在就餐前喜欢饮一小杯白酒。邻里亲朋都说我们很般配。殊不知,打再婚那天起,内心却增添了新的痛苦。原来,老程患有性功能障碍,他说自他原妻患病到现在,已经20年没有过性生活了。我劝他 Editing Comrades: Recently, there was a problem that was both ashamed but unable to get rid of, which entangled me and confused me as a loyal reader in your magazine. I am 58 years old. I was a teacher and my wife died of illness two years ago. Rare children understand and open, friends and family enthusiastic bridge matchmaking, I am married with the old register. Old 62-year-old body, the body is tough, no smoking, just before noon and at night like to drink a small glass of white wine. My relatives and friends in the neighborhood say we are very fit. As everyone knows, since the day of remarriage, the heart has added new pain. It turned out that the old people suffering from sexual dysfunction, he said since his wife’s illness until now, has not had sex for 20 years. I advise him