儿童的成长受许多因素的制约,其中父母的心理是最直接、最具影响力的因素。由于亲子之间强烈的感情,容易使父母对子女的感受、评价、态度产生偏差。因此,研究父母的心理及教育行为,克服不正确的倾向,是提高家庭教育质量的一项重要内容,观察发现,当今独生子女的父母常常表现出如下值得注意的教养心态。 Children’s growth is governed by many factors, of which parental psychology is the most direct and influential factor. Due to strong feelings between parents and children, it is easy to make parents feel their children, evaluation, attitude deviation. Therefore, researching parents’ psychological and educational behaviors and overcoming their incorrect tendencies is an important part of improving the quality of family education. The observation shows that today’s only-child parents often show the following noteworthy breeding mentality.