如何处理父母与子女的冲突,这是不少家长最感头痛的事。比如孩子不讲卫生,不认真完成作业,成绩不好,或损坏家中物件等,责骂孩子,孩子不服,进行顶抗;孩子大了,在升学志愿、职业选择、婚姻恋爱等方面与父母意见分歧而产生矛盾等等。在家庭亲子关系中,存在着家庭角色的个性差异,认识差异,期待差异,价值观念差异及行为方式差异,这是正常的,由此而产生的矛盾如果处理不好,不但会直接影响对子女的教育,也不利于家庭和社会的安定团结。父母与子女的角色冲突,大致有三种原因:一是家长教育要求不当。有些父母不顾子女的兴趣爱好和感受,把个人的好恶强加于孩子,一厢情愿地逼孩 How to deal with the conflict between parents and children is the most troubling thing for many parents. Such as children do not talk about hygiene, do not seriously finish their homework, poor grades, or damage to objects at home, scolding children, children dissatisfied with the resistance; children big, studious, career choices, marital and other aspects of disagreement with their parents And conflict and so on. In the family parent-child relationship, there are individual differences in family roles, differences in understanding, differences in expectations, differences in values ​​and behavior differences, which is normal, resulting in contradictions if not handled properly, will not only directly affect the children Education is not conducive to the stability and unity of the family and society. The role of parents and children conflict, there are three main reasons: First, poor parental education requirements. Some parents, regardless of their children’s hobbies and feelings, impose personal likes and dislikes on children, forced to wishful thinking