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“我家的孩子最爱磨蹭,你急他不急,真气人!”这是年轻父母常提的话题。我7岁的女儿过去也是这样一个爱磨蹭的孩子。穿衣时,本来她自己就可以穿好,可她穿穿停停,急得我们大人不得不帮她穿。吃饭时,我们总是先给她添好饭,可我们大人吃完,准备收拾碗筷时,她才刚吃几口饭。做作业时,她总是坐不住10分钟就站起来摸摸这,玩玩那,明明半个小时就能完成的作业,常常拖延到两个多小时。难道爱磨蹭是孩子的天性?其实,我们冷静地想一想,却不难找出孩子爱磨蹭的原因:一是孩子心智发育不全,注意力不够集中,在干某件事时,容易受外界因素影响,因此,在穿衣、吃饭、做作业时,三心二意,磨磨蹭蹭。二是大人过度溺爱,养成了孩子的依赖性。现在的孩子享受的是全程服务,真正是饭来张口,衣来伸手。久而久之,变得四体不勤,手脚不灵便,做事自然也就慢慢吞吞了。就拿我女儿来说吧,她衣服穿得不利索,我们在一边急不过,马上就伸手帮她穿;吃完饭,我们要收拾碗筷,又怕饿着她,不得不一口一口地喂她吃;
“My child’s favorite rub, you urgently he is not in a hurry, infuriating!” This is a common topic for young parents. My 7-year-old daughter used to be such a loving child. When dressing, originally she can wear, but she wear stop-and-go, anxious we adults have to help her wear. When we eat, we always give her a good meal, but when we are finished, ready to pack dishes, she just had a few meals. When she was doing her homework, she always stood up for about 10 minutes to get up and touch it. She could play it for half an hour and usually delayed for more than two hours. In fact, we calmly think about it, but not difficult to find out why children love dawdle: First, children with mental underdevelopment, lack of concentration is not focused, in doing something, vulnerable to the outside world Factors, therefore, in the dressing, eating, doing homework, half-hearted, rubbed. Second, over-spoiled adults, develop a child’s dependence. Now the children enjoy the full service, really is to eat rice, clothing to reach out. Over time, become four-body unscrupulous, hands and feet are not flexible, things naturally slowly swallowed. Take my daughter, for example, she wears her clothes, but on the other side we are in a hurry to reach out and help her to wear them. After dinner, we have to clean up the tableware, afraid to be hungry, and have to feed them one by one She eats