家庭教育,以接纳为本。接纳孩子,也接纳自己。家庭教育,以接纳为本。接纳孩子,也接纳自己。没有不犯错的父母,就算我们再谨慎,也还是会犯错。自责没有用,接纳反而会让自己更快想到积极的解决方案。经成千上万的父母们验证,倾听、共情、划界限、立规则、我信息,每一步扎实走过,就可以获得接纳力。这种接纳不是放纵,不是宠溺,不是忍受,而是对生命历程的一种了然。我看过《灯塔之家》这本书,虽然是童书,却彰显了什么是接纳力。 Family education, to accept this. Admit children, but also accept themselves. Family education, to accept this. Admit children, but also accept themselves. Parents who make no mistakes will still make mistakes even if we are cautious. Self-blame is useless, admitting will make you think of a positive solution faster. After thousands of parents have verified, listened, empathized, delimited, established rules and information, and walked solidly at every step of the way, they could gain acceptance. This admission is not indulgence, not addicted, not endured, but a kind of understanding of the course of life. I have read “Lighthouse House” this book, although it is a children’s book, but it shows what is acceptable.