子曰“:礼之用,和为贵。先王之道,斯为美。小大由之,有所不行,知和而和,不以礼节之,亦不可行也。”和,是我国古代特别是儒家所倡导的伦理、政治和社会原则。借鉴至今日,和,依然是规范人们道德行为的准则。我们生存的空间离不开社会行为,离不开劳动关系,当当事人双方“不和”的时候,当“伤和”的时候,又该怎么办呢? Zi said “: ceremony with the use of, and for your money. The first king of the road, Sri Lanka is the United States. Small by the big, do not do, know and harmony, not etiquette, is not feasible also. The ethical, political and social principles advocated by ancient China, especially Confucianism. Learn from today, and, is still the norm of regulating people's moral behavior. Our living space is inseparable from social behavior, can not be separated from labor relations, when both parties ”and “, when ”hurt and ", what should we do?