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先看这样一道题:说出世界上最富有的5个人;说出最近的5名诺贝尔奖获得者;说出最近5位奥斯卡金像奖最佳男演员和最佳女演员奖获得者。你的答案如何?答不上来不是错,它只是说明,我们很少有人能记住某个领域里最棒的人物。掌声会过去,奖杯会暗淡,赞扬和证书也会随着它们的主人一起被淡忘。再看下面这道题:说出你最喜欢的3位老师;说出在你困难时帮助过你的3位朋友;说出你愿意与之共度快乐时光的几个人。容易些了吧?你得到了什么启示?真正影响你一生的人并不是那些拥有最多荣誉、最多财富或是最多奖杯的人,而是身边
Look at the first question: Say the richest 5 people in the world; say the 5 most recent Nobel laureates; and say the last 5 Oscars for best actor and best actress. How is your answer? The answer is not wrong, it just shows that few of us can remember the best people in a field. Applause will be in the past, trophies will be dim, praise and certificates will be forgotten along with their owners. Look at the following question: Say your favorite 3 teachers; talk about the 3 friends who helped you when you were in trouble; and say who you are willing to spend happy hours with. Easy? What do you get? The people who really affect your life are not the ones who have the most honor, the most wealth, or the most trophies