母亲的困惑上个周末,应邀在皖南某中学做报告,听众中有一位母亲坐在前排中间的位置,一直很认真地做着笔记并且积极地参与到互动中。讲座结束后,她依然坐在自己的位置上,待其他咨询的家长都离开才起身来到我的面前。她姓张,女儿丁岩(化名)在这所学校读初三。她说丁岩从小学到初一期间学习成绩都在年级里名列前茅,尤其是在小学阶段,更是学校里的风云人物, Mother’s Confusion Last weekend, a middle school in southern Anhui was invited to give a report. One of her listeners was sitting in the middle of the front row, taking notes very carefully and actively participating in the interaction. After the lecture, she still sat on her own position, until the other counseling parents have left before they got up and came to me. She surnamed Zhang, daughter Ding Yan (a pseudonym) in this school to read the third day. She said Ding Yan from primary school to the first grade during the grade are among the best in the grade, especially in the primary stage, it is the school man,