中国人的家族观念是根深蒂固的，按理说，个人与亲属的关系比与朋友的关系应更密切，但随着时代的发展．特别是沿海开放特区，这种传统观念正面临着挑战。不少年轻人觉得生活的选择面大了，自我意识增强了，那么，无形中亲情也或多或少地疏远了。古代的年轻人，结婚娶亲都要父 The concept of Chinese family is deeply rooted, it stands to reason that the relationship between the individual and relatives should be more closely related to friends, but with the development of the times. In particular, the SAR is open to the coast and this traditional concept is facing challenges. Many young people think that the choice of life is overstated and self-awareness is enhanced. Then, affectionately affection is more or less alienated. Ancient young people, married to marry their parents