我们老一辈人家族观念很浓,但到了第二代、第三代,亲情的圈子就逐渐缩小了,甚至只局限于小家庭的直系血缘。比如我,同胞兄妹在世的有5个,共祖父的堂兄妹在世的有11个,侄辈多达40个,但我过70岁生日时,10个亲外侄只来了1个,这让我多少有点失落。当然,我失落的不是份子钱,而是家族血缘间的那份情意。不过,这种情况在这几年还是 The concept of the older generation of our family is very rich, but by the second and third generations, the circle of affection gradually narrowed down and even limited to the direct lineage of small families. For example, my sibling brother and sister living in the five, a total of grandfather cousin living there are 11, up to 40 nephew, but I have 70-year-old birthday, 10 relatives nephew came only one, which allows I am somewhat lost. Of course, I lost is not money, but the love between the family blood. However, this situation is still a few years