蔡特金曾经说过:“父母在儿童的气质中,奠定了最初几块基石。”当现代家庭的重心逐渐向儿童——新一代的独生子女们转移时,如何克服独生子女身心脆弱,以及常与之伴行的孤僻怯懦、任性自私等不正常的心理状态,便成了年轻父母和老一辈家长的当务之急。 一些生理学家、心理学家与医学家经观察研究后认为,当前的不少独生子女,尤其是具有上述不良心理 Zitkin once said: “Parents set the first few cornerstones in children’s temperament.” How to overcome the physical and mental weakness of an only child as the focus of modern family gradually shifts to children - the new generation of only children - and Often accompanied by the withdrawn cowardice, selfishness and other unhealthy psychological state, has become a priority for young parents and older parents. Some physiologists, psychologists and medical scientists after the observation and study that the current number of only children, especially with the above-mentioned adverse psychological