时下,大多数年轻父母对孩子在生活上十分关爱,可真正将孩子作为有人格自尊的人来看待的并不多。孩子学习和生活上有什么问题,在向父母诉说时,稍不如意,就被父母打断,不让孩子把话说完。父母对孩子轻则斥责,重则打骂,对此,孩子只能把话咽回去。据某学校的一项调查显示,70％以上的父母承认没有耐心听完孩子说话。 没有耐心听孩子把话说完,而父母却将自己的喜怒哀乐强加给孩子,其消极影响是显而易见的。 一是孩子说话得不到父母的重视,他们只能把自己的秘密埋藏在心里,父母就很难知道孩子的所思 Nowadays, most young parents are very caring about their children’s lives and can really treat their children as people with personal self-esteem. Children learn and have any problems in life, to tell their parents, a little disappointment, was interrupted by their parents, let the children finish their sentences. Parents denounce the child lightly, while beating curses, for which children can only swallow the words back. According to a survey in a school, over 70% of parents admitted that they did not patiently listen to their children. There is no patience to listen to the children to finish the sentence, but their parents will impose their emotions on children, the negative impact is obvious. First, children do not speak their parents attention, they can only hide their secrets, parents will hardly know the child’s thoughts