教育感悟401:当孩子之间发生问题的时候,最好的办法是引导孩子自己来解决,不鼓励孩子当告密者。当然,10岁以下的孩子自己解决问题有困难,可以请求成年人的帮助。但是,10岁以后的孩子特别是中学生不宜鼓励告密,因为告密行为可能导致阴暗的人格。对孩子来说,解决问题就是成长。 Education perception 401: When a problem occurs between children, the best way is to guide the children to solve their own, do not encourage children to be informants. Of course, children under the age of 10 have difficulty solving problems on their own and can request help from adults. However, children after the age of 10, especially secondary school students, should not encourage intimacy because of the dark personality that can result from the act of disclosure. For children, problem solving is growth.