有些成人,尤其是父亲不敢对孩子表示亲密,对这种所谓非大丈夫气概的情感表露感到不好意思,因此与孩子保持较远的距离,只用呆板的方式照看他们。用买玩具、给零花钱的行为表示关怀,实际上是在“逃避亲切”。这种用间接方法表示对孩子的照顾,会使孩子产生怀疑,猜测自己是否受人喜爱。因此,父亲亦应该公开明显地表示出对子女的热爱。热爱的外部表示,包括抚摸、拥抱、亲吻和身体接触等方式。当这些无言的爱抚伴随着喜欢和欣赏的直接表达时,就会产生巨大的影响。因此,在表露赞赏和热 Some adults, especially their daughters, are afraid to express their affection to their children. They feel embarrassed about this so-called non-husband’s emotional expression, and therefore they are far away from their children and only take care of them in a rigid manner. To buy toys, express their concern for the act of spending money, in fact, “Escape the cordial ”. Indirectly, this kind of care for your child can make your child feel suspicious and guess whether you like it or not. Therefore, my father should also openly and clearly show his love for his children. External expressions of love, including touching, hugging, kissing and physical contact. When these silent caresses accompany the direct expression of love and appreciation, it will have a huge impact. So show appreciation and heat