美国著名生理学家默里对人类的心理需要进行了归纳,从而得出夫妻和谐必须满足双方的五种心理需要。1．尊重的需要。人的自尊心从小就有。一旦受到损害,便会痛苦不已。夫妻间的相互尊重、信赖,是深化爱情和事业成功的基本保证。任何训斥或轻视贬低爱人的做法都会损害对方的自尊心。 Murray, the famous American physiologist, summarized the psychological needs of human beings and concluded that the harmony between husband and wife must meet the five psychological needs of both sides. 1. Respect for the needs. Human self-esteem has always existed. If it is harmed, it will be painful. Mutual respect and trust between husband and wife is the basic guarantee for deepening the success of love and career. Any practice of reprimanding or belittling lovers will hurt each other’s self-esteem.