策划人小语在婚姻生活中,夫妻吵架是再常见不过的事情了。吵架的起因表面上好像是因为鸡毛蒜皮的琐事,或是为了孩子,还有彼此的父母亲人等。而吵架背后的根源,有的是彼此成长环境不同,导致的观念上的不一致;有的是夫妻之间的权利斗争,争的是这个家里谁做主。然而,还有一类吵架背后的根源,掩藏得更深,更不易被人发觉,甚至说出来,当事人还会矢口否认。那就是因为性爱不和谐导致的夫妻矛盾。 Small planners in marriage, couples quarrel is a commonplace thing. Appears on the surface of the quarrel seems to be trivial, or for children, as well as each other’s parents and relatives. The root causes of the quarrel, some are different from each other to grow the environment, resulting in the concept of inconsistency; some are the struggle between the rights of husband and wife, the dispute is who is the master of this home. However, there are still some kinds of roots behind the quarrel, hidden deeper and less easily found, and even said that the parties will denounce it. That is because of marital conflicts caused by sexual disharmony.