如今,望子成龙的家长思虑最多的是孩子的教育,凑在一块议论最多的也是孩子的教育。但是,透过这股家庭教育“热”,我们看到现代家庭教育渐渐步人误区。据笔者近期对首都1000户家庭的《家庭教育的现状》调查,发现现代家庭教育误区的突出表现是,重视孩子成“才”教育而轻视孩子成人教育。教育社会学研究表明,对孩子的社会角色期望是否正确,是教育工作的前提条件。就目前家庭教育现状而言,对孩子社会角色期望的偏差与误区是大量存在的。调查结果显示:“好孩子”、“好学生”在87.6％的家 Nowadays, the most prosperous parents consider their children’s education, and the most talked about is the children’s education. However, with this “hot” family education, we can see that the modern family education is getting more and more erroneous. According to the author’s recent survey on the status quo of family education in 1000 families in the capital city, I found that the prominent manifestation of misunderstanding of modern family education is paying attention to children’s education of “talent” and despising children’s adult education. Studies in sociology of education show that whether children’s social role expectations are correct or not is a prerequisite for education. As far as the current status of family education is concerned, there are many deviations and errors in the expectations of children’s social roles. The survey results show that: “good boy”, “good student” in 87.6% of the home